A Comparison of the Narcissistic Personality Style and Personality Disorder


Personality Style

Personality Disorder

Although emotionally vulnerable to negative assessments and feelings of others, they can hurdle these with style and grace
React to criticism with feelings of rage, stress, and humiliation (even if not expressed)
Shrewd in dealing with others, utilizing the strengths and advantages of others to achieve their own goals
Interpersonally exploitative, taking advantage of others to achieve their own ends
Can energetically sell themselves, their ideas, and their projects
Grandiose sense of self-importance
Tend to be able competitors who love getting to the top and enjoy staying there
Believe their problems are unique and understood only by other special people
Can visualize themselves as the best or most accomplished in their field
Preoccupied by fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
They believe in themselves, their abilities, and their uniqueness, but do not demand special treatment or privileges
Have a sense of entitlement and unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment
Accept accomplishments, praise, and admiration gracefully and with self-possession
Require constant attention and admiration
Possess a keen awareness of their thoughts and feelings, and have some awareness of those of others
Lack empathy; unable to recognize and experience how others feel
Expect others to treat them well at all times
Preoccupied with feelings of envy

Source: Handbook of Diagnosis and Treatment of DSM-IV Personality Disorders, by Len Sperry, M.D., Ph.D.